It was a lovely summer’s day in Sydney’s Chinatown.
There was a gentle breeze blowing through sounds of touristy chatter and giggles. Pigeons were gathering on the pavement, and in a rare moment, the few people buzzing about, mere metres above, didn’t seem too bothered by their presence.
I was enjoying this view of an afternoon moment in the city… until, suddenly, a woman’s head and torso appeared before me.
I stared, somewhat in amazement. Had she simply and suddenly morphed at my table from molecular particles – as per in a science fiction film…??
Was it connected to the rest of a body??
The confusion cleared as I realised this indeed appeared to be a grandmother taking a child out for a stroll in a pram. And the spare seat opposite me…despite the abundant availability of alternative seating…had proved too tempting to ignore.
She hadn’t shifted to the left or right either… It was as if this lady had planned the co-ordinates of her landing – as skilfully and swiftly as any Boeing pilot – to navigate directly into the centre of my point of view.
Almost literally. If she had only asked for my point of view, I pondered, I would have gladly given it.
With her back turned to me and a sour and sulky expression on her face, I decided the only real way I could tell this story for the education of others was through a photograph – which, I confess, I took shamelessly and with some indulgence.
When one wants others to notice them, the best and most polite way is to:
- face them, first and foremostly
- and approach them with a smile and greeting
Always, always consider your surrounding environment before you plonk yourself down for a rest…and if in dire need of advancing directly into someone else’s space, smile AND make eye contact.